I have so much gratitude for an abundant life in so many ways, including financial, loving relationships and a strong healthy body at the age of 65. It hasn't always been this way.
We know there is a strong correlation between our earliest memories and experiences that form our beliefs and have a knock-on effect throughout our life.
My earliest experience/memory around money, especially autonomy of my own money was around the age of 7. I had a small amount saved and remember having a strong urge to walk to the village post office/shop and spend it on sweets. When my Mother discovered I had spent the little I had saved she saw it as wasteful and was furious. Of course she felt she needed to guide me in the best direction around saving and spending. However, her emotional reaction was less than healthy. Her beliefs around money were based on lack and I realised later that I also inherited strong not only strong beliefs around there not being enough but also developed a great deal of confusion around spending because of the disparity of what was displayed by both my Mother and Father in my formative years.
The beliefs like many I grew up with were: 'Money doesn't grow on trees' and 'You have to work hard for a living'. This can have a detrimental impact on every area of our life such as our health and relationships.
Have you done this? worked so hard that your health as suffered as a result?
Along with strong beliefs which can continue to impact our attitude to money, saving and how we spend there are also vow's we make that can have a huge knock on affect on a sub conscious level. For example growing up witnessing my mother being dependent financially on my father I promised myself that I would be never be dependent on anyone or have to ask for money, help or support. This seemed to serve me while a working young, free and single woman. However when I stopped work to have children I then struggled with an inability to ask my husband for financial support or indeed to receive it. In my married life the boundaries often felt blurred around the issues of finance which has sometimes led me to be secretive about what I chose to spend money on.
I find it fascinating to unravel possible connections and what interests me even more is how to overcome our limitations around our ability to be abundant and how the possibility of changing our thoughts, belief systems and emotional responses can really make a difference to a healthier outlook towards money.
I now help and work with both individuals and groups to change their mindset on Money along with creating practical steps to:
M aster the art of manifesting
O wn your autonomy of how and where you invest your energy
N ote any beliefs and blocks that are preventing the flow
E njoy the life and riches you already have
Y ou and you alone are responsible for your attitude to wealth
Notes/Tips:
When we focus on what is lacking in our life, whether that is financial or in love, we attract exactly more of what we focus on. This makes sense and yet how often does this habit crop up?
Below some simple suggestions which I have found to make a huge difference to my relationship with money.
Put aside 10% of income
Cultivate an increased positive energy to manifesting your desires
Focus on gratitude for what you already have
Let go of trying to control how to manifest and surrender to the divine process
If you would like to discover more do email - gillianroutledge@gmail.com or text me on : +44 7866037951 to book in an initial chat where I am happy to share more resources on this fascinating subject.
Or book on for a FREE group zoom call with myself in June
You will learn how to:
Let go of old beliefs around money
Change your money Mindset
Use powerful energy work and the law of attraction to feel and be more abundant in all areas of life. this includes relationships, health as well as financial wealth.
Deep Healing Retreat and Manifesting Abundance in all areas of your life - 2 & a half days in beautiful Hampshire countryside
August 16th - 18th 2024. For more information please click here.
Gill will help uncover, examine and transform unconscious patterns and beliefs about money and tap into your abundance of who you truly are.
We have all inherited limiting beliefs, which can hold us back from realising our full potential. Sometimes they are so firmly ingrained we have no idea what is holding us back in life.
Join us on this glorious retreat, where we will uncover our underlying and limiting beliefs around abundance and relationships and learn new perspectives to change your relationship with money for life.
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